'The wounds never go away': Baby Y-Dang named after Cambodian refugee camp remembers Canadian arrival

Y-Dang Troeung's arrival in Canada, nearly four decades ago, came with the most official of welcomes.

Then-prime minister Pierre Elliot Trudeau shookher father's hand as she not yet a year old bounced in her mother's arms, eyes wide at the camera flashes.

They had just landed in Canada and had been shuttled immediately to Ottawa for the photo-op, to be the faces of a wave of refugees then arriving from Cambodia.

The little girl Y-Dang, in pink, wasnamed after the Cambodian refugee camp, Khao I-Dang, where shewas born in January 1980 as guerrilla warfareraged across her homeland.

While her family's initial welcome to Canadawas full of smiles, Troeung's memories as a young refugee in hernew homelandhad adarker side.

It wasmarked by "cruel racism" and pressure to assimilate that existed parallel to theoutpouring of generosity from strangers who would become neighbours and friends.

As the 40th anniversary of her family's arrival approaches,Troeung looks back on that experience, and the help today's refugees still need.

Parliament Hill welcome

On a snowy Dec. 3, 1980,Troeung, her parents and two older brothers landed in Montreal as part of the Canadian government's Private Sponsorship of Refugees Program, which allowed refugees to settle here with support and funding from private or joint government-private sponsorship.

The Troeungs were sponsored by St. Peter's Catholic Church, in Goderich, Ontario.

Their country had been gripped by years of strife: civil war, U.S. bombs, and starvation under the communist Khmer Rouge.

In 1979, Vietnam invaded and overthrewthe Khmer Rouge, and the chaos that followed led to the death and displacement of millions of Cambodians.

"My parents survived the bombing of Cambodia, the genocide that ensued afterwards and they fled to a refugee camp on the border of Cambodia and Thailand where my mother gave birth to me," said Troeung.

By the time Troeung's family entered Canada 60,000 refugees had comefrom Cambodia, Laos,and Vietnam.

Their arrivalwas marked with a ceremony at Parliament Hill and the meeting with Trudeau, who Troeung describes as "the man who is the centre-piece of my family's postcard perfect photography commemorating our arrival."

Watch: Pierre Elliott Trudeau welcomes Troeung's family in December 1980

ARCHIVES Pierre Trudeau welcomes refugees in 1980

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From the CBC archives: Former prime minister Pierre Elliott Trudeau welcomes a family of Cambodian refugees in 1980.

Life in Goderich

From Ottawa, the Troeungs' sponsors took them to start a new life in Goderich, west of Kitchener-Waterloo.

Troeung says it was very hard for her parents to resettle in a town of 7,000 people even though the sponsors were extraordinarily kind and generous.

"The experience is always mixed in those kinds of circumstances," said Troeung who now lives with her husband and their two-year-oldson in Vancouver.

"We also encountered cruel racism at times and challenges that my mother and father faced at work."

Troeungrecounted stories abouther mother being bullied at the pen factory where she worked because her colleagues feltshe worked too hard and made them look bad.

As well, she says, her brothers would come home from high school beaten and bloody, attacked because they were the only students of Asian descent.

Watch as Troeung describes life for herrefugee family when they moved from Cambodia to Ontario:

Y-Dang Troeung: 'Life was very hard'

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Troeung describes her memories of early refugee life in Goderich, Ontario.

The assimilation process, Troeung remembers included being baptized as Catholics by the church that sponsored her family.

They were given non-Asian names Luke, Catherine, Peter, Patrick and Sarah.

Troeung refused to be called Sarah.

In 1985, Troeung and her family became Canadian citizens.

Tough to assimilate

Vuthy Lay has his own memories of being a refugee in an unfamiliar world where challenges and generosity went hand-in-hand.

Now president of the Cambodian Association of Ottawa Valley, Lay arrived in 1983 as part of Project 4,000 a program launched by Ottawa city council to sponsor 4,000 refugees.

Lay says he washappy to be here butfor the most part, in those days, after their arrival refugees had to manage on their own.

'We came here to survive by ourselves," he said by phone.

Today there are many more services available to help refugees settle in Canada, he said.

"It's like you come to the heavens," said Lay, who had survived three years in a Cambodian refugee camp in Thailand.

40 years later

Y-Dang Troeungsays she's been inspired by her family's experiences and sacrifices to help new waves ofrefugees to Canada.

"I would really like to see Canada do more today for the new waves of refugees coming from places around the world that share many parallels to Cambodian history," said Troeung, an assistant professor in Asian literature and critical refugee studies at the University of B.C.

Her parents are retiredin Cambridge, Ontario.

Troeung said, her parents have a had good life in Canada but memories of the war theyhad to flee will never be forgotten.

"Those kinds of wounds can never really go away," she said.

Troeung's work to help recent refugees includes work withthe Vancouver Association for Survivors of Torture (VAST) B.C.'s largest centre for refugee mental health.

"I carry the memory of my family history with me every day because it's essentially inscribed in my name itself."