Infertility still a taboo topic, says Edmonton mom-to-be

Kristina Melia, 39,is pregnant,her first baby due in May. And though this fillsher with joy, she has not forgotten the struggles it took to get here.

Melia and her husband decided in 2018 to have children but soon realized they were not able to do so. Afterthree years of consultations, blood testsand injections for in-vitro fertilizationtreatments, she was finally able to conceive.

"It's like feeling like a pin cushion," she told CBC's Edmonton AM on Wednesday.

According to Fertility Canada, one in six couples experience infertility, anumber that has doubled since the 1980s.

The subject, however, is still considered taboo, Melia says, which is why shewants to share her experience at an upcoming online event for Infertility Awareness Week, which runsApril18 to 24.

'Reduce the shame'

"It's really to help reduce the shame and normalize the topic, because there's people out there that probably do need support and don't know where to find it," Melia said.

Meliahopes sharing her storywill help more couples feel comfortable seeking help early on.

The event is organized by Pacific Centre for Reproductive Medicine, a group of fertility clinics across Canada, and Whole Family Health, anEdmonton clinic specializing in acupuncture, nutrition and massage.

Centre co-director Dr. Caitlin Dunnesaidawareness about infertility isimportant as manycouples who come to her often do so aftertrying for years to conceive.

"Oftentimes women bear the brunt of feeling responsible or inadequate and they don't talk about it because of those reasons," Dunne said.

The COVID-19 pandemic has only magnified the problem, she said.

"Now you have a forced sort of social isolation and then within yourself you are feeling quite isolated so I think mental health issues are definitely compounded," she said.

27% rise in demand for services

Familyplanning in general saw a rise during the pandemic, Dunnesaid.

Over the past year the centrehasseen a 27 per cent increase in the demand for its services across all locations.

"Being home together has made people realize that they really want a family. And now they have time, I think, to pursue that," she said.

"They've recognized that things can happen in life. The pandemic has been really serious for a lot of people and family is the most important thing for so many patients that I see, so it's largely an emotional driver."

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For patients like Melia,the pandemic posed a huge problem. Meliawas still going through in-vitro treatments whenclinicsshut down in March 2020.

"It was just kind of a very uncertain time which added to the stress that you already encounter when you're going through IVF," she said.

When theclinicsopened in May,she resumed treatments and by September was successful.

The free event takes place at 2p.m. Sunday and is open to the public.