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'She told us she wasn't coming back home again': Family mourns death of daughter killed in long weekend crash

A Mosakahiken Cree Nation woman who died in a crash near the northwestern shore of Lake Winnipeg over the August long weekend is being remembered by her family after they had one last chance to spend what became their final vacation with her.

Lorna Ross, 42, died in head-on collision travelling home from a family vacation over the August long weekend

A woman smiles sitting in a wheelchair.
Lorna Ross, a Mosakahiken Cree Nation woman who died in a highway crash over the long weekend is being remembered by her family as "one of the kindest, most genuine people." (Submitted by Lorna Ross Sr. )

Lorna Ross didn't want to leave her family behind after spending five days with them in The Pas.

But as they saidgoodbye, shetold her parents she felt she wasn't coming back home again.

Just hours later, Ross diedafter being injured in a head-on highway collision.

The 42-year-old was travelling home to Winnipeg in a minivan Monday afternoon onHighway 6,her wheelchair strapped to the front part of the vehicle.

RCMP believe an SUV goingin the opposite direction crossed the centreline into the minivan's path.Thevehicles crashed head-on near the northwestern shore of Lake Winnipeg.

Ross was rushed to a nursing station in Grand Rapids, but she later died.

Sheleaves behindtwin sisters, a brother and herparents.

"She's gone, you're not gonna see her again," her father, Lorne Ross, said. "It's very difficult to think about that."

"We have to live on with the memories that she was a very, very happy person she always had a big laugh."

Lorne Ross said her daughter lived with spastic cerebral palsy after being born with an oxygen deficiency. She was the third of four quadruplets and the family's youngest living daughter.

Lorna Ross was from Mosakahiken Cree Nation. After living in The Pas with her family she moved to Winnipeg, her father said, looking for a more accessible city to live as a wheelchair user, especially during the winter months.

She had an apartment, cared fortwo cats and worked for St. Amant. The non-profit organization supportsManitobans with developmental disabilities, autism and acquired brain injuries.

"She made it for herself, living on her own," Lorne Ross said. "Even though she was confined to the wheelchair, that never stopped her."

Last family vacation

Every August, Lorna Ross travelled more than 500kilometres north fromWinnipeg to visit her family. It was her annual vacation, her father said, and this time, it was planned months in advance. She paid out of pocket to rent a van, and along with a driver and her nurse, they drove up to Lorne Ross's family homelast Thursday.

"When she came home, she bought everybody a gift," Lorne Ross said. "She said this was a Christmas in July for everybody."

Three women, one of them in a wheelchair, stand in a park.
Ross, centre, spent her last days in The Pas on her annual vacation with her family. Among them - her sisters Marie Susan Ross, right, and Marie Jane Ross, left. (Submitted by Lorna Ross Sr. )

Lorna Ross spent the next five days withfamily, strolling through Devon's park with her cousins blastingmusic, watching her nieces and nephews take a crack at a piata at a backyard party and being by her mother's side eating fruiton a picnic.

"My heart is filled with happiness and great memories to get me through the year," Lorna Ross wrote in a Facebook post, talking about the vacation. "I had so much fun with everybody."

"Just the thought of leaving my mom ... that's what breaks my heart," the post reads. "I know she'll be fine. I wish I could be in two places simultaneously, but I can't."

On Monday, before starting her trip back to Winnipeg, Lorna Ross went for breakfast with her family. She had invited everybody, and her father said shewas "extremely happy" for all those who joined her.

At around 12:30 p.m., Lorna Ross was on the way out of The Pas.

"She was just crying, she didn't want to go," Lorne Ross said.

"She also mentioned she was going to go on a trip, but we didn't understand what kind of trip she was going to be on," he said. "I guess that she was talking about this accident that happened to her."

A woman sitting in a chair is pictured looking forward with her arms crossed over a table.
Ross, 42, moved to Winnipeg looking for a more accessible city to live as a wheelchair user. She worked at St. Amant, which supports people who have developmental disabilities. (Jeff Stapleton/CBC)

After the crashthe RCMP got a hold of Lorne Ross at around 11 p.m.Monday. Lorna Ross's mother was at the hospital so he saidhe drove thereand delivered the bad news.

"It's pretty hard. It's pretty hard on us right now, especially my wife," he said.

"She told us that she wasn't coming back home again," Lorne Ross said. "But she said she would be making a visit one more time."

Lawanda Patchinose, Lorna Ross's cousin, told CBC News she will remember her as "one of the kindest, most genuine people," and a "one-of-a-kind person" that didn't let anything hold her back or stop her from achieving what she wanted.

"She was not afraid to stand up for what she felt was right and what she believed in," Patchinose said.

Otherfatalities on Highway 6

Lorna Ross was one ofthree people who died in separate collisions on Highway 6 on Monday.

A23-year-old-womanwho was in the passenger seat of the SUVthat crashed with the minivan, died at the scene. She's been identified by the Nisichawayasihk Cree Nation as Marybelle Yetman, described by leaders in the community as a "beautiful and bright spirit."

A 33-year-old man was killed in a second crash that happened on the same stretch of road later on Monday.

RCMP said an SUV that had been waiting for the road to reopen after the first collision would not start because its battery had drained. A pickup truck turned around to help, pulling up behind the SUV.

Everyone in both vehicles had exited, and they were standing at the roadside when a van crashed into the back of the pickup, police said.

The pickup was pushed into the SUV, which then hit two of the people standing nearby, among them the 33-year-old man who died.

RCMP continues to investigate thecrashes. No charges have been laid.