Ukrainian Manitobans relive historical pain, offer help from afar amid Russian siege

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Orysia Kulick couldn't stop the tears from coming.

Even as an assistant professor in political studies atthe University of Manitoba, she struggles to make sense ofthe Russian siege in Ukraine.

"I think everyone's just in a state of shock, horror, anxiety and everyone is just trying to process it," she said. "There's a lot of sharing of information,we're checking in with our people back in Ukraine, we're talking to one another, trying to hold one another up.

"There's a lot of pain."

Being from a Ukrainianfamily,Kulick has witnessed that pain among those watching an assault on their country for the second time.

"My grandmother, when she saw the news, put her shoes on, she put herself to bed without dinner before seven o'clock, just went into the dark room," Kulicksaid. "She's back there to when she was eight and the Soviets came in 1939."

In Winnipeg, as in many other places, there is acommunity of people who came as refugees of the Second World War. This is a community that knows a few things about intergenerational trauma, she said.

"We're sort of reliving stories that we've heard, experiences that are held in our own bodies, and now it's happening again," said Kulick, who also teaches a range of courses on Ukrainian culture and society.

"But watching this unfold in the 21st century, with weapons that are far worse, with stakes that are much higher, is just devastating."

To deal with it, people are experiencing very different and very personal responses, she said. Some are gettingactive, some are going silent but everyone is coping the best way they can.

"It's just sad, war is hell and it has no place in 2022. And I think we really need a collective spiritual and moral reset. This is wrong."

'Deja vu'

ForMyron Pawlowsky, coping means consuming and sharingas much information as he can.

"I'm not able to stop obsessing about it really," he said.

Though he has lived inWinnipeg his entire life, the current situation in Ukraine still hits close to home. His parents met in a displaced persons camp close to the end of the Second World Warafter fleeing Ukraine amid the advancement of the Soviet Red Army.

"It is deja vu all over again, literally," he said.

During the war, his teenagemother and her sister were couriers for the Ukrainian insurgent movement. When the Soviets claimed Ukraine, their lives were at risk so they escaped to Canada.

"My mother's family found out after they left that they were on a list to be sent to Siberia to be repressed in some fashion,"Pawlowsky said.

Now it's his cousin, Oksana, who is on the run. Theretired schoolteacherwho lived inBoryslav, inWestern Ukraine,recently fled to Poland along with herhusband, their adult daughter and her two sons, aged nineand 11.

Oksana's son-in-law, who is about 40, stayed. Under martial law, Ukraine bannedall male citizens ages 18 to 60 from leaving the country.

"Theyhopethe son-in-law doesn't get drafted and is able to to look after the house and that there's still a house when they come back," Pawlowsky said.

Oksana's other daughter lives in Poland, in a town 120 kilometres fromBoryslav. But the journey by car took2 days because of long waits at the border.

"Buses full of kids from orphanages were arriving at the border and they were being processed ahead of families and cars,"Pawlowsky said. "She said it was tragic seeing these poor kids with no parents to speak of, or no parents were looking after them, being taken to Poland."

With no options but to wait in their car, Oksana's family was met withfood and other items from Ukrainians on one side of the border, and then Polish people on the other, Pawlowsky said.

"She's been magnificently, positively surprised by the help they received on the way,"Pawlowsky said.

He has been messaging his cousin and her daughter in Poland, while doing what he can from 8,000 kilometres away.

"To me, it's not just my relatives, as dear as they are to me, but Ukraine is dear to me," Pawlowsky said. "This Russian attack has literally taken over my life over the last few days."

He is using social media to combat disinformation and to direct people to organizations seeking humanitarian aid.

"I feel as if I'm coordinating some assistance effort but of course I'm an ordinary citizen.I realize I have a small role to play but nonethelessI really feel as if it's my duty."

Musician offers shelter

Oleksandr Bulich, better known by his stage nameSasha Boole, is also doing what he can but from a much closer vantage point.

He lives in a town near Chernivtsi in Western Ukraine,where he has set aside his guitar and songs to offer shelter to refugees.

"Mostly it's women and kids. Some of them are in the city of Chernivtsiin the flats that we own, and some of them are in the basement of a house in the countryside,"Booletold CBC Information Radio host Marcy Markusa on Monday.

He and his brother have hauled water to the countryside home andhave built benches from wood gathered nearby. They have alsoprovided sleeping bags, dehydrated food and a small gas stove, offering what they can to their boarders.

At presentthey have about 20 people but the numbers aredynamic. For some, the shelter is a brief pause on their way to Romania.

"For them, it's kind of a stop, to have a deep breath, to have some food, to sleep normally because some of the people spent two or three days on the road or, before, they were sleeping in a subway or in a bomb shelter,"Boolesaid.

"But some of them are staying here and they don't plan to go anywhere from Ukraine. They want to join and help Ukrainians to do anything they can."

Five days into theinvasion, there is astark and emotional contrast in the country, Boole said.

"From one sideyou see the pure kind of support and collaboration between people here in Chernivtsi and around people letting people live in their houses, people cooking food and giving it for free, people trying to help as much as they can," he said.

"But from the other side, you see that there's cities like Kharkivthatare almost vanished with artillery and dead civilians."

In the days leading up to the war, musician friends around the globeoffered to take Boole in, "but I saidno, I will stay with my family, with my friends, my country."

When it is necessary, Boole intends to strap on gun rather than a guitar and step into the battlefield.

"Right now, there's such a lot of people that want to do it, they are actually asking you, 'just wait, we will contact you,'" he said.