$20 Lady: Looking for birthday party bargains for kids

If theres one thing besides germs thatkids are guaranteed to bring home in the first weeks of school, its a slew of birthday party invitations.

This week, we had three: two for my youngest, who hasnt been to many parties so I said yes to both; one for my oldest son.

Two presents for six-year-old girls and one for a 10-year-old boy. And my mission? Get them all for $20.

Its possible to do it easily just give each kid $5 in a dollar store birthday card. But I dont really like giving money as I gift. It just doesnt feel special enough.

I hit Facebook and Twitter to ask for suggestions. Many people thought three presents for $20 was impossible. Plenty mentioned books, though. A few other people mentioned hitting the clearance aisles and picking up jewelry for the girls from the dollar store or Claires clearance.

Not much in the 'birthday box'

The Scholastic flyers always have books for under $2 each that I stock up on. I have a "birthday box"for books, small trinkets, craft suppliesand my own kids unwanted presents.

This week, though, there wasnt much in there: some glue sticks and boxes of crayons extras from bulk buys for school this year; leftover loot bags from my daughters party last year; some card-making supplies.

Eyeing the glue sticks, I realized any six-year-old girl would love a project my daughter enjoys: fabric art. So I grabbed a tote with markers Id used as a loot bag, a glue stick and bottle of glue and hit my rag bag. There I cut a few squares from some shiny and pretty fabrics. I also grabbed a thimbleful of sequins and seed beads from one of my daughters bead kits.

Then it was off to the dollar store. I bought three small canvases for $1 and a pair of scissors, also for $1. One gift accomplished.

While at the dollar store, I saw a toy my boys love getting in loot bags: a glow-in-the-dark zombie that expands in water. I grabbed that and a flashlight for $3 total and decided that with a scary or suspenseful book, theyd make a great fright-night reading experience for a 10-year-old boy.

A farm theme

I was left with one more child. Her birthday party was scheduled at a farm, so I decided to stick with that theme. I picked up a couple of small planters, a bag of potting soil, and a small watering can for $1.25 each. Then I hit Home Depot for some crocus bulbs at 99 cents.

Before that, though, I stopped by Chapters, where I picked up a suspenseful hardcover for $4.99. While there I noticed another bargain present I considered buying for the birthday box: a sock monster puppet kit for just $6.99. I also noticed heritage craft kits, like the one I had just compiled, selling for over $20.

What I didnt buy? Cards my kids can make their own. Tissue paper its just wasteful. Fancy gift bags I picked two gender neutral ones for $1 that can be re-used for any occasion.

What I did buy? Three pretty cool gifts that werent junky and would keep kids happy and busy.