N.S. women fleeing domestic abuse decry lack of affordable housing

Kate thought the hardest part of leaving her abusive husband would be musteringthe courage to walk out of theirhouse and never return. But in the months since she left, her hope of building a new life has dwindled.

The thing she needs most seems out of reach.

"I can't try to find a job, I can't better myself, I can't be safeif I don't have a home," she said in a recent interview.

CBC News spoke to threewomen who have fleddomestic abuse in Nova Scotia buthave been forced to remain for monthsin sheltersknown as transition houses, as they search in vain for safe and affordable placesto live.

They say they've been told by support workers it can take years to get intopublic housing, and other housing geared to income, includingfor women fleeing intimate partner violence, is full across the province.

This leaves the women, whom CBC News are not identifying by their real names because they fear for their safety,no choice but to try to find apartments at market rentsin a province with low vacancy rates and soaring rental prices.

At capacity

Twoof the women said they are considering going back to their abusers because they don't know what else to do. One of them worries she will lose full custody of her child because the pair are living long termin a women's shelter.

They're pleading with the provincial government for help.

Leaving the abuse took courage. Now these women face a hopeless search for housing

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CBC News spoke to three Nova Scotia women who fled abusive relationships and have been staying in shelters for months. They say they can't find anywhere affordable to live and two are worried they will have no choice but to go back to their abusers. Nicola Seguin shares their stories.

"I think the provincial government isn't taking it seriously, the lack of affordable housing," Kate said."When you have to turn women away and send them back to maybe their deaths, to an abusive husband in an abusive situation after they've found the courage to leave, just because we cannot find housing."

Ann de Ste Croix, the provincial co-ordinator for the Transition House Association of Nova Scotia, said because of the current housing market, women are forced to remain for up to a year in transition houses, which are shelters for women and children who have fled abuse. Typically, she said, women are only supposed to stayfor about six weeks.

De Ste Croix said last year, the 11 transition houses run by her organization provided services to about 4,200 women and children across the province. But the shelters are often at capacity, which can mean turning women away.

"Risks include women becoming homeless, and often that is hidden from our view," she said."So we do have women who live on the streets, but also it can look like couch-surfing or trading sex for a bed."

In small towns, it's the same story.

One of the smallest transition houses in the province, Autumn Housein Amherst, N.S., is usually full.

"If they meet our mandate and there's some real risk, we'll take a woman here, we'll turn our living room into a overflow room,"said Dawn Ferris, the executive director of the Cumberland County Transition House Association.

Waiting for a bed

Kate had a big house in the country with her young child, her husbandand a family dog, but psychological abuse and coercive control was just below the surface.

When she realized she was being abused, she decided to take her daughter and go. But the women's shelter in her areawasfull.She waited two weeks in fear until she got a phone call saying there wasan open bed for her.

Kate said leaving gave her freedom, but it came with difficulty. Working with a housing support worker for months, she still hasn't been able to find anything she can afford onheremployment insurance payments.

"I see nowhere to go," she said."I'm going to be stuck there. I'm going to have to spend Christmas there."

'We need to do more'

Housing Minister John Lohr said in an interview the Nova Scotia government is "deeply sympathetic" to people fleeing domestic violence. They are put atthe top of the public housing wait-list, but theystill have to wait for a unit to become available.

As of January, the public housing priority-access wait-list, which included117 people across the province,had an average wait time of 1.6years. For the 4,790 people on thenon-priority list, theaverage waitis just over twoyears.

When asked if thewait times show a need for a larger supply ofpublic housing, Lohrsaid "we haven't ruled it out categorically building new."

"I will say that in our internal discussion, we talk about every option," he said.

Lohr pointed to his department's investment in programs like the Community Housing Acquisition Programand the land for housing initiative.

"We're doing all kinds of things," Lohr said. "We know we need to do more, and especially for victims fleeing family violence, our heart goes out to them."

According to a Department of Community Services spokesperson, Nova Scotia'sStatus of Women Office provides$7,405,345 in annual core funding to transition houses.

In March, the province announced an additional$8 million to help organizations supporting women experiencing gender-based violencemeet the increased demand for their services and to address rising operating costs.

The women who spoke with CBCNewssaid they're happy to be safe, but living in a transition house has its difficulties.

One woman, Sarah, decided to leave her partner last winter when he choked her unconscious. For the first few months, she couch-surfed and stayed with family. She's been in a transition house since April.

Sarahsaidthere's little privacy, making it hardto relax, and her small bedroomnever feels like home.

"One of the main things for everybody is sleep," Sarah said. "If we can get sleep, at least we can start to feel better, start to heal. But it's hard to do that there."

Kate saidsome days her young daughter struggles in the communal setting.

"One night she had thrown everything from all the drawers and all the suitcases on the bed," Kate said."She's yelling she wants to go home. So eventually I just explained to her that mommy and daddy have separate homes, and for right now, the transition home is mommy's home."

Though Kate worries for her daughter, herbiggest concernis she won't get full custody of her child because of their living situation.

Morgan Manzer, a child protection lawyer with Nova Scotia Legal Aid, said judges and decision-markers with Community Services become "very concerned" about children when their parents can't find long-term housing.

"It poses a very significant and real barrier for folks who are trying to have their children placed in their care or remain in their care," said Manzer, who notedmost of his cases can be connected tothe lack of affordable housing.

When asked howthe Department of Community Services evaluates the risk of a child staying in a shelter environment with a mother, a spokesperson would not say.

"The goal of DCS will always be to look out for the best interests of the child," spokesperson Christina Deveauwrote in an email."We work with community organizations such as transition houses to find solutions that allow for safe environments for children where they can stay with their parent."

No end in sight

Mary, who is in her 60s, left her husband of more than 30 years, escaping physical and psychological abuse.She's now on income assistance and is paid $950a month.

She's been in a transition house for sixmonths, and saidastime passes she's starting to feel like she has no choice but to go back to her husband.

"The housing support workers say their hands are tied. They can't make these apartments appear. They can't. They do the best they can and they show us, but everything on the list starts at like $1,400," Mary said.

"I just don't see an end. I think I'm going to have to go back. I don't know what else I can do."

People in Nova Scotia affected by intimate partner violence cancall or text the provincial toll-free line at 1-855-225-0220or contacttheir local shelter organization.