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'It's not a dating app': How this couple found love on TikTok

For Sean Parsons and Charlene Allen, it was love at first "like." They share their TikTok love story and how it brought together the two, formerly single parents.

Charlene Allen and Sean Parsons welcomed their 1st child together 2 years after Valentine's meeting

This couple found love on TikTok

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This Valentine's Day marks two years since Charlene Allen and Sean Parsons met for the first time, after getting to know each other through popular social media app, TikTok.

For Sean Parsons and Charlene Allen, it was love at first "like."

It started with a simple TikTok duet Allen posted her own video side-by-side with one of Parsons's, both lip-syncing Katy Perry's song E.T.

Then the pair, each a single parent, got to talking.

"I knew at that moment there was something there. It was like a magnet pulling me in," Allen said.

Parsons, 36, sent the 37-year-old Allen more videos for a duet and two weeks later the weekend before Valentine's Day 2021 he was making the drive down from Ottawa to Niagara Falls to meet her in person.

A man kisses a woman on her cheek as they sit on a couch and hold up a cell phone displaying an image of them performing.
Charlene and Sean Parsons show off a still from the first duet they performed together on TikTok. The pair met each other on the platform and quickly fell in love. (Trevor Pritchard/CBC)

"I made a little sign for him saying don't miss the house," Allen laughed, remembering that first meeting. "Of course, he missed the house."

That first night, Parsons said he felt nervous, but the butterflies disappeared after he and Allenstayed up all night talking.

"Before we knew it, the sun came up," he recalls.

Three months later, Allen moved to Ottawa to be with him.

"I've always said I'll never move out of Niagara Falls, until I met him ... [but] it just felt right to me."

Sean Parsons and Charlene Allen pose in front of the Niagara Falls at night.
It took Parsons 11 hours to complete the 5-hour drive to Niagara Falls thanks to a GPS issue but two years later, the couple is happily raising nine kids together. (Submitted by Charlene Allen)

'Would you believe it's not a dating app?'

The couple realized early on they had a lot in common.

Both were recently separated. She was raising four boys in Niagara Falls and he was raising four girls in Ottawa.

"We were living similar lives but just in different cities," Allen said.

Neither were looking for love.

A man and a woman share a kiss in front of a sign reading
Since meeting two years ago on Valentines Day weekend, the couple has moved in together with their eight children from previous marriages, as well as their baby girl. (Submitted by Charlene Allen)

Parsons wasn't interested in online dating and though Allen had tried dating apps in the past, she quickly deleted her accounts once it got to be too overwhelming.

So it took their friends and family by surprise to learn they not only met online,but through the popular video-hosting app, where it's more common to connect over dance trends or music and comedy mashups.

A large family sits on and in front of a brown couch in a suburban home.
Parsons and Allen sit with seven of their nine children inside their home. (Trevor Pritchard/CBC)

"From an app that's just [for] making music videos, you really don't expect you're going to meet somebody, have a conversation with them and have so much in common," Parsons said, adding it's something of a joke for their kids, who range in age from sixto 16 years old.

"[There's this] line they use, when [Allen's] boys are explaining it to all their friends at school," Parsons said.

"'Would you believe it's not a dating app?'"

The 'Parsons Bunch' spreads hope

Two years later, and with a new addition to the household 10-month-old baby Maria, nicknamed their 'TikTok baby'the family of 11 couldn't be happier.

"From the beginning, I've always called us the Parsons Bunch," Allen joked, adding she's been trying to make up her own lyrics to parody The Brady Bunch theme song.

A man and woman sit together with their baby daughter on a couch, with the woman holding the baby up and having her wave to the camera.
Allen and Parsons pose for a photo with their daughter, 10-month-old Maria, who Allen calls their 'TikTok baby.' (Trevor Pritchard/CBC)

But the real story she wants people to take away from her family is one of hope and courage.

"I've always said, if you have no hope, you have nothing. And hope is what brought me to Sean," she said.

"There's always love out there, even when you don't feel like there's anything for you."

Parsons echoes the sentiment.

"Never be afraid to put yourself out there. If you think it's impossible, that's more of a reason to do it."