'That was my dream': One Islander's lifelong quest to live independently

For many people, finding your first home or first apartment is a big deal. After many years of living with parents or roommates, it's finally a place to call your own.

For Janet Charchuk, it was an even bigger deal. Being able to live alone where she wants tohas been something she's been working toward her entire life.

Charchuk, 37,lives with an intellectual disability Downsyndrome.

Up until 2010, she was living with her parents. She was looking for more independence but wanted to stay in the Alberton area of Prince Edward Island.

"That was my dream.I always wanted to be able to live on my own," said Charchuk.

But at that time there was no housing inAlbertonthat would provide the necessary supports. And she was reluctant tomoveto a place where those housing supports existed.

"My connections are really here. My mom and my dad, they live in Montrose, and if I were to move to Charlottetown, I won't be able to see them as often. And living in Alberton is a little bit closer to than Charlottetown. And I do have friends here in Alberton as well," she said.

Residential services sought

Then along came Alberton House. Built in 2010 and run by Community Inclusions, itprovides transitional housing units and longer-term housing supports for Islanders living with intellectual disabilities in western P.E.I.

"I think at that time there was46 people in the area that we identified that may need residential services," said Kevin Porter, executive director of Community Inclusions.

The goal was to make sure they didnot have to leave their community for housing. And to ensure a good fit, they were involved from the start.

"If you're going to be planning something, you need to involve whoever those user groups are going to be. So we had community people, we had parents, we had input from self-advocates," said Porter.

One of those "self-advocates" was Janet Charchuk. Her mother, Jackie, also sits on the board of the organization.

As a step to living alone, Charchukhad a critical role in the development of Alberton House. She successfully requested that Alberton Town Council rezone the land to allow for the housing to be built, and secureddonations from the Rotary Club of Summerside.

"I actually feel pretty proud. And at the same time, I also felt like I made a real difference for people. And I want to make that difference," she said.

After Alberton House was built, Charchuk was one of the first tenants to move in. Living there for six years was a good experience, she said, giving her the tools and skills needed to live alone eventually. Butshe soon decided it was time for a change.

Now living independently

So, she decided to go to a local apartment buildingand put her name on the list. Thatcame as a surprise to her mother, who was out of province at the time.

"I think from the very beginning, Janet always surprised us and amazed us. And she's very determined and hard-working and capable. And those are the things that I saw as she was growing up," said Jackie Charchuk.

"I was a bit surprised, but when I thought about it, no, that just fits right in," she said.

Now that Janet is living alone, both she and her mother are extremely proud of the work done in the area. And Janet Charchuk said she hopes people take two things away from her journey.

"You have to start off slowlyIf you need to live somewhere to get supports first, I think they should do that and to be able to learn life skills so they can live on their own. If they can't, then that's a whole different ball game," she said.

The most important thing, in her opinion?

"That they have the right to choose where they live."

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