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Holocaust survivor Hedy Bohm finally gets to attend school prom

A Toronto-area high school invited a Holocaust survivor to their prom so she could experience the milestone event that she missed when she was sent to Auschwitz-Birkenau at 16.

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Holocaust survivor, Hedy Bohm, invited to the prom

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Toronto students invited Holocaust survivor, Hedy Bohm to experience a prom dance for the first time

As a Holocaust survivor, Hedy Bohm has shared painful memories with thousands of teens. Now, a group of Toronto-area students hasshared something special with her: Anight at their prom.

I felt joy at being able to accept, Bohm said. And very honoured that they wanted me there.

Bohm was the guest of honour at Birchmount Park Collegiate Institutes prom on Monday evening at the downtown Liberty Grand entertainment venue. There, the 86-year-old moved with apparent ease among the 175Grade 12 students, albeit in sensible shoes and not the teetering heels worn by some of the students.

Holocaust survivor Hedy Bohm at the Birchmount Park Collegiate Institute prom. Students invited Bohm after realizing she never had a prom or graduation. (CBC News)

Many of the graduates first met Bohm during a field trip to the Holocaust Education Centre in Toronto. For the past eight yearsBohm has recounted her story there, sharing in vivid, painful detail how her life in Hungary turned upside down in 1944.

Within weeks, she went from being a normal teenager to being shipped with her parents to Auschwitz-Birkenau, the infamous concentration camp in Nazi-occupied Poland. Both her parents died there.

When Hedy speaks, I don't see a single electronic device come out, said Tania Camuti, a teacher at Birchmount who regularly leads school trips to the Holocaust Centre. Everybody sits there silently and listens.

After hearing Bohm speak last December, Camuti and her class were discussing the fact that Bohm would have never experienced key events like a prom or graduation. That realization prompted one student to speak up with an idea.

I just blurted out 'I want to take Hedy to the prom. I want to 'prompose' to her'- Rowan Kelly, Grade 12 student

I just blurted out I want to take Hedy to the prom, said Rowan Kelly, a Grade 12 student at Birchmount. I want to 'prompose' to her.

Camuti said she initially considered the suggestion a crazy, random idea. But she quickly warmed to it.

I thought Why shut him down if he has this idea? Lets roll with it, she said. Worst case, it doesnt work out. Best case, Hedys coming to prom.

Kelly'sinitial idea quickly turned into a wider effort. When the second semester class went to hear Bohmspeak, they came armed with a potted daisy, an invitation and an understanding that the grandmother might not be keen to accept.

Not Bohm. She didn't hesitate to say yes.

Bohm arrived at the prom with Camuti and was promptly greeted by students, given a corsage, and ushered into the photo booth for group pictures. She smiled gamely as the students crowdedin around her, alternating between smiles and silly faces.

Several students said they could relate to Bohm because she had described herself as an average teenager who loved literature, gym and dance, but was a mediocre student.

Hedy Bohm dances with high school student Rowan Kelly at the Birchmount Park Collegiate Institute prom in Toronto. Kelly was among the classmates who invited Bohm to the event. (CBC News)

You feel you could have been in the same situation, said Brigitte Donaghy, 18.

She starts her story with I woke up in the morning. I went to school. Its just an everyday thing for her and then it took a terrible turn.

And would Bohm relate to the musical styles of the average 2014 prom-goer? Donaghy seemed to think so.

I think shes kind of a pop girl. Shes very young at heart.

Actually, Bohm says she'smore of a Chopin kind of girl. But while she politely demurred when invited to hit the dance floor for some numbers,Bohm could be seen on the sidelines tapping her feet as the students danced to a very loud thumping beat.

And Bohm did get one special dance. She waltzed with Rowan Kelly to Louis Armstrongs Its a Wonderful World.

So how did it go?

The dance? I guess we should have practised a little bit, she said.Still, she added,"It was nice."

The students had one more surprise for Bohm: a small book containing photos and messagestelling her how happy they were to have her at their prom.

The gesture was born from Bohm's presentation to the class back in December. In it she had mentioneda small leather book containing drawings and notes from friends, family and her parents. Aside from photos, it was all that she had left of many of them.

It's a treasured keepsake and a powerful symbol that resonates with many of the students who hear her story.

"It touches people," Bohmsaid. "It reminds them of themselves. And sensitive people, they respond with feeling."