Family, friends of alleged victims of Woodstock, Ont., nurse remember loved ones

Kind, gentle and caring.That's how Susan Robinson remembers her old friend James Silcox, one of the allegedvictims of aWoodstock, Ont., nurse who is facing murder charges in thedeaths of eight elderly people in nursing homes.

ElizabethWettlaufer, 49, has been charged with eight counts of first-degree murder. Her alleged victims were between the ages of 75 and 96 and died between August 2007 and August 2014, police said in a news conferenceTuesday.

Silcox, 84,was a Second World War veteran ofthe Royal Canadian Army Service Corps. He was married and had six children. He was allegedly killed at the CaressantCare Nursing and Retirement home in Woodstock on Aug. 12, 2007.

"JimSilcoxis one of thenicest men you could ever want to meet," said Robinson. "His children loved their dad so much and he was a wonderful husband tohis wife."

Daniel Silcox, of Pontypool Ont., said he discovered his father was among the alleged victims while listening to the radioTuesday morning.

'Best father in the world'

"We're living my father's death right now," he said."It's horrific."

His father didn't like living at theWoodstock home, and had broken his hip atthe facility, but the family otherwise had no suspicions that hisdeath might not have been natural, DanielSilcox said.

"We don't want him to become the poster boy of this tragedy, butwe would like the story out there: [He was]a wonderful man, a WorldWar II vet, just the best father in the world."

In a statement,Silcox'sfamily shared part of his eulogy, in which he was described as"a compassionate and loving human beinganda man of deep abiding faith."

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Robinson said Silcox, a longtime member of theOld St. Paul's Church in Woodstock,is missed by thecommunity.

"I think the whole church misses him.Even if when he was sick, he would try to drag himself here ... he loved the church and the church loved him," she said.

'A good and decent person'

Friends and neighbours of another alleged victim, HelenMatheson, 95, who died at the Woodstock home on Oct. 27, 2011, said they are still in shock that someone close to them was part of a murder investigation.

"I thought it's terrible.But then when you find out there is really somebody you know, that's flesh and blood that you know,It impacts you more," said Donalda Osmond. "She was private and trusting. She'd trust anyone...Just a good and decent person."

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Donalda Osmond expresses shock after learning her friend Helen Matheson was killed

Matheson was quiet and kept to herself, according to herneighbour Graham Harcourt.

"[She] was an amazing person because she was so smart and so knowledgeable. If you asked anything about the village, she knew it," he said. "I find it really hard to believe that anybody could harm somebody like Helen."

Gladys Millard, another one of Wettlaufer'salleged victims, who died at the Woodstock home on Oct. 14, 2011, was amemberKnox Presbyterian Church in Woodstock.

She was remembered by the minister of that church,Rev.Mark McLennan, as someone whom everyone spoke fondly of.

"Some of our older members couldn't believe it. She was such a faithful member of our church," hetold CBC'sAs it Happenson Tuesday.

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McLennan, who presided overMillard's funeral, said he went back and looked at his notes after he heard the news.

"Gladys was just a church lady.In the funeral I said her life was a sermon on Christian living and how people of faith should conduct themselves," he said.

Very vibrant, very excited about life

Tony Cuzzocreamet alleged victimArpad Horvath at a friend's function40 years ago. The two became friends quickly and often spent time together in London, Ont., where they lived.

"He was a really nice guy, very friendly," he said. "He was veryvibrant, very healthy,very excited about life."

For Cuzzocrea, Horvath's death at the Caressant facility in London on Aug. 31, 2014,was very unexpected. Finding out that his death may have been a murder has left him upsetand confused.

"It's just totally shocking to me that this happened in what you would think is a good safe nursing home in a safe country like Canada," he told CBC News.

Police say there were four other victims at the Woodstock home:

• Maurice Granat, 84, who died Dec. 23, 2007.
• Mary Zurawinski, 96, who died Nov. 7, 2011.
• Helen Young, 90, who died July 14, 2013.
• Maureen Pickering, 79, who died March28, 2014.

Police would not say how the victimsdied, except that seven were administered a fatal dose of a drug.

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