Looking for 'a way out': Turkey mulls a 'Trexit'

The question comes, almost without fail, to any Westerner who visits this Turkey:"What do they think of us where you're from?"

Some of those asking are genuinely curious. However proud they are to be Turkish, there is an element of envyof the opportunities they believe life in the U.S. or Europemight offer. More questions usually followabout how they could moveto where you're from.

Others are genuinely suspicious. They believe the West the U.S. and Europe ispulling strings invisible to civilian eyes. It might seem easy to dismiss the conspiracy theories so many here subscribe to. But those who are convinced there is an ever-evolving plot to keep Muslim countries down, including this one, will rattle off examples like Iran and Iraq whose futures were radically altered by outside intervention.

It is that combination of awe and anger that defines Turkey's relationship with the West. Increasingly, the anger is overshadowing the awe.

Tuesday's vote by the Council of Europe to put Turkey back on its list of monitored countries the first European country to carry that difficult distinction, and one Turkey hasn't faced in more than a decade will give the suspicious minds more to be consumed by.

The move angered Turkey's leadership. TheForeign Affairs Ministry called it a "political operation" that was "ill-intentioned and unjust." The country's EU Minister,Omer Celik,called it "a historic mistake."

Warning signs

In its report, the COE said it understands the threats and stress Turkey has been under the war in neighbouring Syria, terror attacks and the attempt to overthrow the government last summer. But it cautioned that the moves Turkey has made in the past eight months, during the state of emergency, has "gone far beyondwhat is necessary and proportionate."

Just this morning, more than a thousand people were detained across Turkey in police raids targetingthose the government believes may have been behind the attempted coup in July.

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The COE was created to promote European culture and human rights,and its decision doesn't mean Turkey's bid to join the European Unionis done. But this is another mark against Turkey's membership chances andanother strong warning of the fragility of the friendship one that stability in the region relies on heavily.

How did we get here?

Turkey is a founding member of the very group it now finds itself on the fringes of.In 2004,President Recep Tayyip Erdogan, then the prime minister, was himself in the same room where the members voted this week. There were smiles and acceptance. That was the year the council promoted Turkey frommonitoringto the dialogue stage, with just a few issues to iron out.

But Turkey sat atthat stage for 13 years before being downgraded back to monitoring status. Nowthe COE expects to sendrapporteurs to visit Turkey and regularlytrack its progress. But with the current state of the relationship, and given Erdogan's response to election monitors watching Turkey's referendum to expand his presidential powers earlier this month, Ankara may not even allow them in the country and won't likely listen to any of their concerns.

The long wait since2004 only to be sent back to where it began itis still much shorter than the decades Turkey has been waiting to join the EU.

It's hard for many to shake the feeling Europe is stringing along this majority-Muslim country.

"With Europe making it clear that a large, overwhelmingly Muslim nation was not welcome, public support in Turkey for the EUproject, which was as high as 73 per cent in 2004, registered as low as 40 per cent in 2007, leaving the country with no external anchor for reform,"Middle East scholarSteven A. Cook wrote in the Washington Post.

In other words, Turkey's government had no incentive to keep making the changes Europe wanted. Membership may have its privileges, but many Turks can't see what they are anymore.

'Trexit' threats

In an interview with Reuters on Tuesday, Erdoganhinted again that Turkey could leave the EU talks altogether.

"If they're not acting sincerely, we have to find a way out. Why should we wait any longer?"Erdogansaid. "We're talking about 54 years."

Another reminder thata so-called Trexitcould comeeven before Turkey actually joins the union.

And while it may just berhetoric, at some point either Europe or Turkey will have to make a choice.

As the twolurchfrom crisis to crisis, Cook saysWashington also needs to take some blame about the state of affairs in Turkey thatwith its need to keep Turkey content as a strategic ally, the United States has given this country's leadership more leeway than it might otherwise have.

"Successive U.S. administrations have been loathto publicly criticize Erdogan and [his party] the AKP for their domestic excesses," Cook wrote.

What next?

Billions of dollars of trade between them and the millions of refugees Europe wants Turkey to keep are two of the strongest strings holding this relationship together.

Neither can really afford to lose the other, but both sides will likely keep pretending they can. One side screams Islamophobia, the other dictatorship.

The game goes on; the region continues to rumble.