As I took a nighttime walk with my 13-year-old son, 10 days into the pandemic, I asked him why he wanted his dad to move into our basement. He launched into a pitch citing statistics and facts about how particulate could penetrate hospital masks, until I interrupted him.

Can you tell me from your emotions? Dont talk from your brain.

We walked for about 20 seconds before his voice went soft and sincere. Im worried hell get sick and Im worried about him on his own. I know him, solitude doesnt suit him.

When my partner left me after 28 years, I was devastated. He made me feel small, betrayed and helpless. The last thing I wanted at that uncertain time was to share a home again with my own private Thanos. But hearing this, bam, just like that, I unlocked the door to the AirBnB in the house my ex and I were fighting over.