If someone in your family or group of friends recently had a new baby , you probably want to visit, check in, or try to help in some way. Because you are a kind and lovely person.

But, to the uninitiated, your gestures could have unintended effects, ie. a chronically sleep-deprived new parent cursing your name and vowing revenge because you rang the doorbell and woke the damn baby. You break it, you buy it!