Many of us think that following our heart or doing what we want most will make us look selfish. But heres the truth about being true to yourself: The happier you are, the happier those around you will become.

As we step into the new year, there are certain things we can do to prioritize our happiness. This year is fresh, exciting, and full of possibilities. In numerology,y this year, 2017, is a one year, which is all about new beginnings and creating from a clean slate. Now is the best time to ask yourself, What do I really want for myself, for my life, for those I care about? Prioritize your dreams and happiness. Because what you do this year will set you up for the next phase of your life and years to come.

In the spirit of the new year, here are five key things to prioritize for happiness:

1. Prioritize Self-care

I made only one resolution last year, and it was to prioritize self-care. I lost more than 20 pounds, I discovered a newfound passion for life, and found self-love.

This dedication to yourself will reap benefits beyond your wildest dreams. Self-care is not just about drinking your green juice and counting caloriessure, that is important, but it is also about listening to your body. It is about honoring your intuition and taking care of your mind, body, and soul.

2. Prioritize Your Dreams

There is only one you in the world, and the dreams and ideas that come to you are part of your life plan for fulfillment. You wouldnt have insights into what could make you happy if they werent a clue into your ideal life. Honor your dreams, trust them, and take action on them.

3. Prioritize Feeling Good

Align yourself with people, places, and situations that make you feel good and joyful. Protect your energy by establishing boundaries. Dont let negative situations or people bring you down. Focus all your energy on what you want and you will create a beautiful life that feels good on the inside and out.

4. Prioritize Community

Many of us are walking around feeling more lonely than ever. The fix is to put down your tech devices and really be present when you are with others. Establish a schedule that helps you connect with community. Join a meetup group, online dating site, or adventure club to help you meet like-minded people and connect with people who will support and love you.

5. Prioritize Love

In every situation we always have a choice: we can choose fear, judgment, shame, anger or we can choose love, joy, happiness, and peace. It is important to not only prioritize love in your life but be the love in the world. Choose to give others the benefit of the doubt, open your heart to the good that is available, and trust in the journey. Also take time this year to really focus on loving yourself and caring for your own needs. When you love yourself and appreciate the gifts you have to offer the world, you uplift and inspire others as well.

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