Dustin Lance Black Has Great Reply After Being Told Two Men Shouldn't Raise Kids

Dustin Lance Black and Tom Daley surprised fans on Valentines Day by revealing that they were expecting a son via a surrogate and have since endured their share of criticism from conservatives who say their child would be better off if brought up by a heterosexual couple.

A man called in to BBC Radio 5 Lives Afternoon Edition during an interview with Black last week, for example, and said he didnt think two blokes can bring a baby up.

I dont have an issue with gay people, I want to make that clear, said the caller, who was not identified. But, he added, you need the mother there. The mothers the one. [Women] are very different, the way they do things everything.

Dustin Lance Black (@DLanceBlack) speaks to a 5 live caller who thinks two men shouldn't raise a child pic.twitter.com/D78MIyYrJH

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Dustin Lance Black (@DLanceBlack ) speaks to a 5 live caller who thinks two men shouldn't raise a child pic.twitter.com/D78MIyYrJH
BBC Radio 5 live (@bbc5live) March 27, 2018

Black, who wed Daley last year in Devon, England, offered an extremely composed response to the caller.

There are all different kinds of families out there in the world, and for many different reasons some more tragic than others children are raised by single parents all the time, he said. Those children Id like to claim myself as one, who was raised by a single mother for some difficult reasons I think I had a very strong mother who raised me incredibly well.

Black, the Academy Award-winning screenwriter of Milk, also assured listeners his future son would meet and interact with women.

It would be wrong to deprive a child of that, and, frankly, bizarre and probably impossible, he said.

Black also acknowledged and he and Daley will face some real legal challenges because they had chosen to raise their child in the United Kingdom. Surrogacy contracts arent enforced under British law , so the woman who gives birth is treated as the childs mother until parental rights are transferred through a parental order.

It would be a much easier path if we decided to raise our son in the U.S., but this country is home for us, Black said .

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He also indicated that he and Daley have a good relationship with their surrogate.

Shell be a part of our life for a very long time, he said. Shes awesome [but] she wants to stay out of the limelight.