Sorry, Brad Pitt , Ben Affleck and Chris Martin . Gwyneth Paltrow says shes now in her first adult relationship.

The actress and Goop guru told The Sunday Times that her fiance, writer-director Brad Falchuk, is taking her places that shes never gone.

Now, for the first time, I feel Im in an adult relationship that is sometimes uncomfortable, because he sort of demands a certain level of intimacy and communication that I havent been held to before, she told couples counselor Esther Perel in an interview. What came up in the first couple of years of our relationship was how incapable I was in this realm, how I feared intimacy and communication.

The Oscar winner, of course, was famously involved with Pitt and Affleck before her 10-years-plus marriage to Coldplay frontman Martin, which resulted in two children and a conscious uncoupling. She announced her engagement to Falchuk in January, more than three years after they met when Paltrow did a guest arc on Glee.

Discussing no man in particular, Paltrow told the therapist: In the past, Ive been in relationships with men who had intimacy issues, so I could be, like, Im fine, Im ready to do this, and let myself think hes the one with the problem. In a way, some of the relationships were designed to keep me out of intimacy.

She continued: I had two typical types of relationships: one where I was constantly chasing and trying to win someone over, and one where I was put off by the persons capacity for the relationship and those relationships were very short-lived.

Check out the full interview at The Sunday Times .