Salma Hayek and her husband, billionaire CEO Franois-Henri Pinault, have been married for 12 years. And in that amount of time, the actor says shes learned an important key to a very strong relationship: never say anything nasty to each other.

Hayek opened up about the twos relationship on Wednesday episode of Facebook Watchs Red Table Talk after Jada Pinkett Smith asked her friend for tips for deeper connection in a relationship.

I will tell you what my best advice is ... I love it that I have it with my husband, the actor said. When there is conflict, we put all the energy in solving the problem. Never finding who to blame or, You should have done this or that. No all our energy goes into, How do we solve this?

And so because of this, weve never said anything nasty to each other, Hayek added as the rest of the roundtable, including Willow Smith and Adrienne Banfield-Norris, voiced their awe. No resentment.