You want the people you love to take good care of themselves , but sometimes persuading them to do so is an uphill battle.

If your partner refuses to see a doctor or a dentist, you may be frustrated (and rightfully so) but youre certainly not alone. Thirty-five percent of U.S. adults didnt visit a dentist in the past year, according to a 2013 Gallup survey . Forty-four percent didnt see a primary care physician in the past year, per a 2018 Medicare Advantage survey . And overall, men are less likely to go to the doctor than women.

So how do you convince your loved one to go see a doctor or dentist? We talked to medical professionals and a therapist to understand why someone might be hesitant to go, and got some tips on how to get them in motion.

Reasons People Avoid Going