Henry Winkler's Greatest Role Ever - Grandparenting!

Part one of our exclusive feature.......

Grandparentslink.com celebrates the men in our lives and their roles as fathers, grandfathers, husbands, and friends! Now, Henry Winkler gives us his personal take on life, love and living, as he stars in one of his most important and meaningful roles as a grandparent. We had so much fun talking with Henry that we have a two-part interview. Todays conversation appropriately highlights Henrys role as husband, father, and grandfather. Hes a delight and a genuine individual filled with warmth and enthusiasm.

GPL: Thank you for taking the time to chat with us. We know you often speak about your beautiful wife Stacey and your loving relationship. How long have you been married?

Henry: Well, since 1978. So you tell me, since Im dyslexic. I think 39 years.

GPL: And you have three kids, and how many grandchildren?

Henry: We have four grandkids and they all live close by. In fact, our daughter, her husband and two kids are working on their house right now, and theyve moved in with us. It is joyful!

GPL: Is your best role ever -- Father or Grandfather?

Henry: Well, I love being a Dad. The only thing is that youre limited as a granddad because there are different rules because youre not the parent, so you have to learn the rules in the same way, along with the grandchild. Sometimes, I talk out of turn and get looks from every direction.

GPL: Do you think that sometimes you have to zip it?

Henry: Sometimes you have to zip it, without a doubt. Zipping is very important.

GPL: Yep, we think so too, but its hard to zip it.

Henry: Yes, especially when they are sitting on the arm of the chair at dinner and if they fell backwardsbut they have great parents. And I should just zip it.

GPL: Would you say youre more a helicopter Im in control type of granddad, or are you more of a laid-back grandpa?

Henry: Ive learned to be laid-back. Ive learned to just go where the conversation goes with them.

GPL: What about Stacey? Is she kind of laid-back too?

Henry: Oh, Stacey is one of the greatest nanas of all time.

GPL: Do your grandkids know what you do for a living?

Henry: They do. At least two of them know. One of them might, but doesnt say anything. The other is too young. With the five-year-old, I sit on the couch and we watch reruns, and he looks at me. Then he looks at the screen, and back at me, and says, Your hair is different. Yes, thank you very much. And he says, You were slimmer then. And I reply, Oh, thank you, thank you. Lets watch something else right now!

GPL: As you are talking about your grandkids, is there any particular situation with them that especially stands out?

Henry: I cant remember anything offhand because everyday there is something new Yesterday, I drove my five-year-old grandson to school, and we talked about vocabulary. I told him how wonderful his vocabulary is. He didnt know what the word vocabulary meant, and now he does. He also noticed that the trees were manicured in a different way on the street where we were driving. It was almost as if they were manicured in order to create the most amount of shade on the windows of the building behind. He observes everything. Im sure all children do. They are unbelievably funny. He stuck his face in his birthday cake. The kids love to dress up in costume.

GPL: What you are talking about here is being mindful. What you did in the car yesterday, talking about vocabulary and noticing the manicured trees. Thats all being right there in the moment, just the two of you and nobody else is around.

Henry: Its like youve eaten a breakfast of smiles. For the rest of the day, it just keeps shooting back into your mind about how cozy it was, how interesting it was, how interested he was. Its being in the moment when its happening, and youre not so busy that you miss it.

GPL: So, it doesnt really seem like you have a favorite thing to do with your grandchildren. What we are hearing is your favorite thing is to just be with them.

Henry: We play Beanie Babies, and Im the monkey Milton. I use a different voice and I have to ask permission to come down from the tree to play with the Beanie Babies.

GPL: Its a gift to be a grandparent.

Henry: Yes, theres nothing better. Its really true. Its a feeling that overwhelms you.