Honoring the Stars and Stripes: Memorial Day Flag Protocol

As we approach Memorial Day this coming weekend, it's a good time to brush-up on our flag protocol. With thoughts of a fun-in-the-sun three-day weekend ahead, we sometimes forget the roots of Memorial Day.

Many have defended our country's values, especially our service members. Memorial weekend is a traditional time to showcase the ultimate U.S. symbol -- our stars and stripes.

Many of our readers have asked us about displaying their flag. Here are answers to the questions we receive most:

What do we need to know to display our U.S. flag?
How do we know if we're doing it correctly? Just by asking the question you are honoring the flag. Thank you for setting a leadership example for younger generations. The United States Flag Code stipulates that as the symbol of a living country, the flag is considered in a living thing and should be properly cared for as follows:

• Raise the flag briskly and lower it ceremoniously.

What is the difference between half-mast and half-staff?
Our readers who are sailors (Ahoy there!) already that know the term "half-mast" refers to nautical flagpoles, or masts. "Half-staff" refers to any other flagpole, whether residential or commercial.

Are there any special requirements for flying the U.S. American flag on Memorial Day?
Yes, in addition to the Flag Code protocol there are special requirements for flying the U.S American flag on Memorial Day. On this day, flags are flown at half-staff from dawn until noon. At noon, the flag is raised briskly to full-staff until sunset, when it is lowered completely.

What if my flag cannot be raised or lowered to half-staff because it is mounted to the side of my residence?
If your personal flag cannot be raised and lowered effectively because it is mounted to your home, you have another option. Flag protocol dictates that a black ribbon be tied on top of the flagpole, just under the top ornament, as a substitute.

This Memorial Day, remember to respect our history, raise your flag, honor all who have served and use our tips to enjoy your three-day weekend.

Sharon Schweitzer , J.D., is a cross-cultural consultant, an international protocol expert and the founder of Protocol & Etiquette Worldwide. She is accredited in intercultural management, is the resident etiquette expert for CBS KEYE We Are Austin, is a popular on-air contributor, and is regularly quoted by BBC Capital, Investor's Business Daily, Fortune, Inc., The New York Times, The Vancouver Sun, and numerous other media. She is the best-selling, international award-winning author of Access to Asia: Your Multicultural Business Guide , named to Kirkus Review's Best Books of 2015.