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Posted: 2022-12-02T19:04:01Z | Updated: 2024-03-26T17:06:47Z These Comics Perfectly Capture The Weirdness And Wonder Of Motherhood | HuffPost Life

These Comics Perfectly Capture The Weirdness And Wonder Of Motherhood

"Weird Mom Art," from illustrator Rachel Deutsch, is full of humor and heart.

Being a parent is a wild ride. There are high highs, low lows and countless weird-yet-wonderful little moments sandwiched in between.

Writer and illustrator Rachel Deutsch is the mother of two behind the Instagram account @WeirdMomArt , which she started a couple years ago after she had her second kid. In her work, she captures both the absurdity and the wonder of parenthood. 

Ive been drawing cartoons off and on since I was a teenager, but I never really shared them beyond having them in a student paper for a year, Deutsch told HuffPost. I felt like my creativity blew up in a good way after I had my kids. There were just so many ridiculous parenting moments and I felt like such an animal. I started to draw and write a lot more after becoming a mom. 

Deutsch described her kids, ages 2 and 4, as wild beasts who are tender and amazing and destructive and endlessly curious. She often finds inspiration for her cartoons while shes with her kids and occasionally while shes lying in bed in the middle of the night.

Im terrible at falling back to sleep once I wake up, she said. Sometimes, I have ideas buzzing around my head and cant get back to sleep. A few times, I just lie in the dark laughing. Im exhausted, too. Maybe that adds to the free flow of ideas.

In her life, Deutsch said shes a pretty soft-spoken person. But in her art, she loves drawing gory and intense human body stuff. 

I would say my art is a bit out there, she said. Sometimes I have to run it by a friend to make sure its not too gross or bloody. Theres one drawing I did about breastfeeding where the mom ends up nursing a shard of glass since it feels the same as a babys mouth. Breastfeeding can be really painful!

Several of Deutschs followers have told her that her drawings made them both laugh and cry, which she considers the biggest compliment.

They make me laugh and cry, too, she said.

An unexpected perk of creating the Weird Mom Art account has been the supportive and funny online community of parents who have banded around it, Deutsch said.

I think parents are looking for something that is both funny and gritty, she said. Lighthearted, but a little dark. Parenting is hard!

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Rachel Deutsch's cartoons have been featured in The New Yorker and McSweeney's.

While Deutsch was pregnant with her first child, she said, she worried she would lose part of herself when she became a mom.

When certain people saw my bulging belly, they called me mom or mama. I hated that! Deutsch said. I thought I would never be able to refer to myself as a mother.

I think that had to do with what Ive learned about mothers in the media, she said. I had absorbed a view of mothers as being boring, faceless and endlessly sacrificing . Or constantly resentful, tired and angry. Theres many valid reasons to feel all those things. But, thats not all mothers feel.

However, after Deutschs baby was born, she realized she hadnt lost herself. Rather, she uncovered new parts of herself in this transition. For one thing, being a mom gave her more confidence as an artist something she never would have called herself before.

I kind of just stopped caring what others thought as much or if I was good enough, Deutsch said. I also want my kids to see me expressing myself through art and doing something I care about.

Check out more of Deutschs drawings below. You can also follow her on Instagram or visit her website to see more of her work.

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Rachel Deutsch/@WeirdMomArt
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