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Posted: 2017-11-29T10:01:37Z | Updated: 2017-11-29T10:01:37Z 13 Gorgeous Photos That Capture The Complicated Bond Between Sisters | HuffPost Life

13 Gorgeous Photos That Capture The Complicated Bond Between Sisters

"Because every girl needs a sister."

Few relationships are as strong or as complicated as those between sisters .

In her new book, simply titled Sisters , photographer Sophie Harris-Taylor  portrays that special bond between female siblings of all ages. Harris-Taylor began taking the pictures in and around London two years ago and ended up photographing just under 80 people. (The book is pared down to 42.) 

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Each photo is accompanied by a short interview with the sisters, written by journalist Emma Finamore . Some of them speak of strained moments in their relationships  childhood arguments in shared bedrooms and periods of jealousy but through it all, their bonds have endured.

As one younger sister named Flo puts it, “I’m probably more happy and comfortable in [my older sister’s] company than anyone else’s.”

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Lizzie, 26, and Flo, 21, lived alone without their parents for four years when Lizzie was in her late teens and early 20s and Flo was in her teens.

In an interview with HuffPost, Harris-Taylor said the book was inspired by her sister and their relationship, which she admits is a work in progress. 

“For years, I felt a pressure to conform and have a kind of relationship with my own sister that for so many reasons didn’t come naturally,” she said. “Like all relationships, it changes and recently we’ve been in touch more. I would never close that door.”

Below, read excerpts from the book, which is available from Hoxton Mini Press .

Anna (28) and Kate (37)
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Almost 10 years apart, these two live far apart, too Kate in America and Anna in London. Growing up, Anna was wrapped up in cotton wool and close to her parents, while Kate was more independent, the black sheep of the family. Nowadays, Anna is the social butterfly; Kate can be more socially awkward. The rare time they do manage to spend together is pretty intense, but it means they value it all the more.

Kate: Im envious but not in a negative way. I think Anna is so ridiculously talented and beautiful, and Im quite jealous that shes taller than me and has more freckles.

Anna: Its exactly the same for me envious cause Kates the better looking, more talented, brainier, achiever of the family."
Freya (11) and Georgia (16)
Sophie Harris-Taylor
Like many sisters of their age, these two have a love-hate relationship. Freya steals clothes from Georgias room, and when Georgia has friends over shell hang around wanting to join in the fun, which causes arguments. Their rooms are next to each other, though, so they often talk and do nails together; and when Georgia goes away they stay in touch on Instagram Freya misses having someone to talk to in the car.

Georgia: I always wanted a younger sister and I was begging Mum please, please have another one.
Anne (62) and Meng (61)
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Growing up in Malaysia, Anne was a mini-skirt-wearing rebel in matching knickers like her heroine Twiggy, running around with a gang of boys, riding about on baby cows, making catapults and toy guns, while Meng stayed home being good. Annes rebellious streak got her sent to an English-style boarding school, escaping the chores that Meng -- educated in the Chinese system -- was responsible for in the family home. The contrasts continued into adulthood, but theyre closer now despite their differences.

Meng: I was always jealous of her.

Anne: I was never jealous of you.
Flo (20), Millie (16), Bea (6), Oki (11), Clara (15) and Cecily (8)
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This big group of sisters (with three brothers too, so there are nine siblings in total) has formed smaller groups within the unit. Often the youngest two are best friends, and the teens team up. Flo and Oki call themselves the holding forces, bridging the gap between the youngers and elders, while Flo supports everyone as the oldest. She spends long stretches away from home on tour as a musician, which can be painful: Flo misses out on seeing the youngest growing up, while they all wish she could be around more.

Bea: Im having seven children and three dogs and a cat and two fish and a hamster, but I also might want to adopt children.
Rachel (27) and Michelle (31)
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Despite both being quite quiet, Michelle and Rachel speak to each other daily -- sometimes hourly -- via FaceTime, text, WhatsApp or Instagram. They both live with their husbands now but still socialize a lot and love to travel together. They reminisce about their crazy trip to Las Vegas, or a time in Ibiza when Michelle remembers a scorching hot walk back from a tiny beach, with their hair big and curly from sea and sunshine, giggling as they went.

Michelle: When we speak about having children my husband only wants boys and he is like, I dont mind one girl, and Ive always said, No, you would have to have more than one girl because every girl needs a sister.
Grace (17) and Jessie (8 months)
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This is a very new relationship: Jessie is just eight months old. Grace was an only child until three years ago when her little brother (Jessies older brother) was born, and she thinks this has given her the best of both worlds: now she has the fun of experiencing siblings -- and theyll never have to fight over toys. Grace already thinks her brother is like her, while her baby sister is more laid back.

Grace: Shes so young, she doesnt really have any personality yet.
Clare (55) and Juliet (60)
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These sisters have had very different lives. Clare has struggled for independence in spite of a disability, while Juliet has had to support the whole family (at least thats how it feels) including their other two sisters. Clare was sent to boarding school when she was seven and was terribly homesick, but the two still share some childhood memories like taking the blue pram out for a walk with their dolly called Pixie and going to the corner shop for ice cream. Juliet admires Clares strength, even if she doesnt always answer the phone.

Clare: Youre very helpful and kind.

Juliet: I thought you were going to say, Shes an old boot.

Clare: Shut up.
Mimi (4) and Coco (9)
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Though they might argue about sharing things and sometimes interrupt each others play dates, Mimi and Coco are pretty good friends. In fact, thats how they usually make up after a fight: Mimi will ask if they can be friends again. They love sharing a bedroom because at night they can go mad and chat until the small hours, and jump around. Mimi will also get into Cocos bed when shes had a bad dream about the scary creature coming up the stairs.

Coco: She likes to be the same as me.

Mimi: I sometimes call Coco, Mimi.
Sam (46) and Vicky (45)
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These sisters are the same star sign but have completely different personalities. Vicky is wilder and will cry at anything, where Sam tends not to show her emotions, except when she argued with their dad as a teenager -- she always had to have the last word -- and last summer on holiday, when she threw a drink in Vickys face. They both work in PR now, so maybe theyre more alike than they think.

Vicky: Weve talked about moving out of London and I dont know if I could do that cause I wouldnt be near to her, it would be weird.

Sam: We will be in an old peoples home together.
Rochelle (25) and Sabrina (27)
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Both chameleons, these sisters can seamlessly slot into each others social worlds -- it doesnt matter that Sabrina is a self-described mainstream Essex girl (despite being the wild child when they were young) while Rochelle, an actor, is more arty. They lived apart for a few years when their parents divorced -- a shock, as theyd seemed like the perfect Brady Bunch family -- but they would meet every Monday at The Windsor pub in Paddington to keep up their sisterly bond.

Rochelle: Literally every Monday we would meet up and we would set the world to rights, and catch up and have a moan and a cry, and have a weeks worth of sisterhood in that time.
Anaya (11), Kianna (4), Rhianne (14) and Sienna (6)
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The youngest two in this group are self-proclaimed opposites: Sienna is a tomboy, into cars and Xbox and climbing trees like a monkey, while Kianna is a girly girl. With four brothers as well, Rhianne sees herself as in the middle. She and Anaya arent keen on sharing a room, except when they cant sleep at night.

Rhianne: I dont like cheese and tomato, and they all like cheese and tomato.
Zita (10) and Unity (12)
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Unity and Zita like having each other around -- a sister is someone to talk to but also someone to play funny pranks on. Unity feels protective over Zita, sometimes even when her friends come over to play, but gets annoyed when her younger sister copies her. Shes also the quieter of the two, and Zita is more boisterous (at least in public) but they enjoy the same music and toys, and are very good at sharing these. They both like rollercoasters too, sharing the thrill of speeding up and down, and enjoy a good argument -- as long as it doesnt last too long.

Unity: Sometimes if Im angry, I can talk to Zita really fast cause she will understand."

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