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Posted: 2017-05-03T19:17:13Z | Updated: 2017-05-03T19:17:13Z Procrastinate Tomorrow: 5 Ways To Push Through | HuffPost

Procrastinate Tomorrow: 5 Ways To Push Through

Procrastinate Tomorrow: 5 Ways To Push Through
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Jerry Kimbrell

For many of us, procrastination feels like the bane of our existence.

Its the voice saying, I know I should be, the project you just dont have time for, or the dream that goes unfulfilled.

I used to procrastinate with everything. Id drag my feet, wait until the last minute, freak out and then just before the deadline, get it done. But after awhile, I realized that this pattern was causing me so much stress. I hated feeling the pressure and tension.

Thats when I decided to make some adjustments in how I approached my life. And heres what I found most useful:

1. Just Start

What youre dealing with is the mind, your own resistance to taking action.

Be gentle with yourself and begin with doing ONE THING: an email, a blog post, a phone call, a walk around the park, reading 10 pages of your assignment, one act to get you started.

For whatever reason, the mind is fearful- fear of change, of growing, of the unknown.

The best way to deal with fear is to take action.

When you dont take action, youre stuck in a negative loop. The mind repeats over and over again, you know you should be reading, researching, walking You ignore the voice and watch TV, eat chips, do the crossword puzzle. But its still there, like a broken record.

I was most chronic with this about exercising. And one day my Dad said to me, Youd have been done hours ago if youd just gone for a run. Look at all the time and energy youve wasted thinking about it.

Stop thinking about what to do and take action.

2. Small Pieces

Sometimes a project can seem or feel overwhelming. Its a massive undertaking. Something youve never done before. Where do you start?

Break it down into pieces.

Think about your project as stepping stones. What is the first thing that needs to get done? And the second?

When you put things into bite size pieces, it suddenly doesnt feel as overwhelming or huge.

Now its manageable.

I took a writing class recently and the instructor was talking about completing a manuscript. She suggested you write the titles of all the scenes in the book, cut up the papers and throw them into a jar along with other suggestions like, eat chocolate or go for a stroll. Then when youre ready to sit down and write, you pull one of your pieces of paper out of the jar and write that scene.

Talk about bite size pieces!

3. Ask For Help

A number of years ago, I was tasked with accrediting the school my husband and I founded. That process required communicating all of the schools operating procedures and processes through massive documentation.

I had never done a project like that. It was enormous and felt totally overwhelming.

I created a timeline and broke down each part so I knew exactly what I had to do by a certain date. But even then I watched myself delay.

Thats when I realized I needed help. I wanted to understand exactly how to complete the accreditation paperwork. So I went and received professional training which I was able to do for free.

Getting the help you need can be key.

What do you feel like you dont know? Who can help you?

4. Schedule Time

Okay so theres a huge project on your horizon. Youve decided to break it into small pieces and get the help you need.

Now make sure that you schedule it out.

Plot out over time exactly when youre going to do each piece.

When I was completing my Masters program in Social Work, I was taking care of my family and had a full time job, so time was tight. The only way I was able to manage the workload was to create a schedule.

At the beginning of the semester, I reviewed everything I was required to do: tests, papers, presentations. I scheduled each one - which weeks, which projects.

And then I did it.

Some days I definitely did not want to, but it was what I had to do in order to stay sane and complete all the work.

5. Create Space

Where is your special spot for work, exercise, creativity?

Overcoming procrastination is about creating healthy habits and one of the easiest ways to do that is to have a designated space. When you go to this place, youre ready to work, play, draw or run.

I know a woman who always carries her gym bag in her car. That way she has no excuse for not going to exercise after work. She creates the opportunity.

Clean off that desk, create a beautiful space for you to want to be in to get those exciting projects done!

As Robert Holden reminds us, procrastinate tomorrow.

Nowadays when I find myself not wanting to begin a project, I will actually say those words to myself and they help me get going. I pick one thing to start and before I know it, the entire day has flown by!

Let me know how it goes for you. Which of the above do you think is most helpful?

Shakti Sutriasa is the Founder of Decide Differently which provides tools for personal development and self transformation including: one-on-one support, workshops, meditation and more. Shaktis unique approach combines modern psychology and spirituality to help people align to purpose, experience greater happiness, as well as release anxiety, and stress. Shakti is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and has an MA in Education. Learn More OR Download her FREE Goal Setting Kit! Click Here

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